Tuesday, 31 January 2012

Romantic Novels You Would Love to Read


      Romantic novels take you into the world of passion and love. They also remind you of the wonderful things in your relationship. Moreover, a recent study showed that girls who read romantic novels are good in bed. Here is a list of some wonderful love stories. Once you start reading one of these novels you won’t be able to put it down until you have read it!

   Whitney, My Love by Judith McNaught

Whitney Stone's teenage crush on a neighbour has her cold, unfeeling father banishing her to Paris into the care of her aunt and uncle. Under their loving guidance, the young woman blossoms into a ravishing beauty and becomes the darling of glittering Parisian society--a fact not lost on the handsome and equally powerful Duke of Claymore, who determines to make her his wife. Despite the duke's fervent interest, Whitney remains fixed on her childhood love. That is, until she finds herself tempted by the Duke--an attraction that both delights and baffles Whitney, causing her to be increasingly wary of what her heart may lead her to do. The Duke suffers no such confusion. He wants Whitney. And he plans to have her, despite a number of obstacles, including the infatuation Whitney seems to have for another.

        


   It Had to Be You by Susan Elizabeth Phillips

The Windy City isn't quite ready for Phoebe Somerville -- the outrageous, curvaceous New York knockout who has just inherited the Chicago Stars football team. And Phoebe is definitely not prepared for the Stars' head coach Dan Celebow, a sexist jock taskmaster with a one-track mind. Celebow is everything Phoebe abhors. And the sexy new boss is everything Dan despises - a meddling bimbo who doesn't know a pigskin from a pitcher's mound.

So why is he drawn to the shameless sexpot like a heat-seeking missile? And why does the coach's good ol' boy charm leave cosmopolitan Phoebe feeling awkward, tongue-tied...and ready to fight?



       

   Truly Madly Yours by Rachel Gibson

Pretty hairdresser Delaney Shaw has returned home to Truly, Idaho, for the reading of her stepfather's will, which stipulates that, if she wants to collect her inheritance, Delaney must remain in town for an entire year. And she must have nothing to do with sexy Nick Allegrezza. Unfortunately, Nick is as irresistible as ever and Delaney must truly decide if he is truly, madly the man of her heart.










Where Dreams Begin by Lisa Kleypas

In Victorian London, a world of seemingly effortless beauty and grace that is governed by the strict rules of etiquette and behaviour...where a single forbidden kiss can force a woman to choose between society's demands -- and her own heart's desire.

Zachary Bronson has built an empire of wealth and power -- now he needs a wife to help secure his position in society...and warm his bed in private. But not just any woman will do for a man whom all of London knows is not a gentleman. Then he unexpectedly swept Lady Holly Taylor into his arms for an unasked for -- but very alluring -- kiss, and suddenly he knew he had found a woman whose fierce passions matched his own.

Lady Holly Taylor was beautiful, generous, and, as a widow, destined to spend her life playing by society's rules, even when they went against her bolder instincts. But Zachary's kiss had aroused her, and though the shocking offer he made didn't include marriage, she was compelled to risk everything and follow him to the place where dreams begin.

  Something Wonderful by Judith McNaught

The tempestuous marriage of Alexandra Lawrence, an innocent country girl, and Jordan Townsende, the rich and powerful Duke of Hawthorne, is about to face its ultimate test of tender loyalty. Swept into the endlessly fascinating world of London society, free-spirited Alexandra becomes ensnared in a tangled web of jealousy and revenge, stormy pride and overwhelming passion. But behind her husband's cold, arrogant mask, there lives a tender, vital, sensual man...the man Alexandra married. Now, she will fight for his very life...and the rapturous bond they alone can share.





 Paradise by Judith McNaught

Two strong-willed characters maintain 11 years of unwarranted hostility based on a series of misunderstandings in this engaging romance, Teenage socialite heiress Meredith Bancroft has a quick and disastrous secret marriage to unsuitably penniless Matt Farrell. Her domineering father tells each of them a series of damaging lies and speedily arranges a divorce. A decade later, Meredith, now vice-president of a department-store chain and engaged to a prominent banker, meets Matt again. The highly successful CEO of his own conglomerate, Matt has a well-deserved reputation as a ruthless corporate raider, and when he hears of Meredith's aggressive plans for her chain's expansion the two clash explosively.

       



   Perfect by Judith McNaught

A rootless foster child, Julie Mathison had blossomed under the love showered upon her by her adoptive family. Now a lovely and vivacious young woman, she was a respected teacher in her small Texas town, and she passionately lived her ideals. Julie was determined to give back all the kindness she'd received; nothing and no one would ever shatter the perfect life she had fashioned.

Zachary Benedict was an actor/director whose Academy Award-winning career had been shattered when he was wrongly convicted of murdering his wife. After the tall, ruggedly handsome Zack escaped from a Texas prison, he abducted Julie and forced her to drive him to his Colorado mountain hideout. She was outraged, cautious, and unable to ignore the instincts that whispered of his innocence. He was cynical, wary, and increasingly attracted to her. Passion was about to capture them both in its fierce embrace...but the journey to trust, true commitment, and proving Zack's innocence was just beginning....

Flowers of the Storm by Laura Kinsale

Christian Langland, Duke of Jerveaux is the ultimate hero. A brilliant mathematician and a complete rake, Christian is a man of contradictions. When a stroke leaves him permanently unable to speak, his family believes him to be mad and relegates him to a sanitarium. Fortunately, Maddy, a righteous Quaker and do-gooder, recognizes that Christian is not insane--he just can't talk! Maddy may not be the most likable heroine you'll encounter, but she has depth and character, and is probably one of the few people you could imagine who would have the patience and understanding to accept and live with Christian's intense anger and frustration. But she never dreamed her gentle, healing touch would alter his life and her own so completely -- and bind them together in need, desire ... and love.




        Outlander by Diana Gabaldon

English nurse Claire Beauchamp Randall and husband Frank take a second honeymoon in the Scottish Highlands in 1945. When Claire walks through a cleft stone in an ancient henge, she's somehow transported to 1743. She encounters Frank's evil ancestor, British captain Jonathan "Black Jack" Randall, and is adopted by another clan. Claire nurses young soldier James Fraser, a gallant, merry redhead, and the two begin a romance, seeing each other through many perilous, swashbuckling adventures involving Black Jack. Scenes of the Highlanders' daily life blend poignant emotions with Scottish wit and humor. Eventually Sassenach (outlander) Claire finds a chance to return to 1945, and must choose between distant memories of Frank and her happy, uncomplicated existence with Jamie.



            The Secret by Julie Garwood

Judith Hampton was as beautiful as she was proud, as purposeful as she was loyal. The dear Scottish friend of her childhood was about to give birth, and Judith had promised to be at her side. But there was another, private reason for the journey from her bleak English home to the Highlands: to meet the father she had never known, the Laird Maclean...Nothing prepared her for the sight of the Scottish barbarian who was to escort her into his land...Iain Maitland, Laird of his clan, a man more powerfully compelling than any she had ever encountered.

In a clash of spirited wills and customs, Judith reveled in the melting bliss of Iain's searching kisses, his passionate caresses. Perplexed by her sprightly defiance, bemused by her tender nature, Iain felt his soul growing into the light and warmth of her love. Surely nothing would wrench her from the affection and trust of Iain and his clan...not even the truth about her father, a devastating secret that could shatter the boldest alliance, and the most glorious of loves!
        
   The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks

A man with a faded, well-worn notebook open in his lap. A woman experiencing a morning ritual she doesn’t understand. Until he begins to read to her.  The Notebook is an achingly tender story about the enduring power of love, a story of miracles that will stay with you forever. Set amid the austere beauty of coastal North Carolina in 1946, The Notebook begins with the story of Noah Calhoun, a rural Southerner returned home from World War II. Noah, thirty-one, is restoring a plantation home to its former glory, and he is haunted by images of the beautiful girl he met fourteen years earlier, a girl he loved like no other. Unable to find her, yet unwilling to forget the summer they spent together, Noah is content to live with only memories. . . until she unexpectedly returns to his town to see him once again. Allie Nelson, twenty-nine, is now engaged to another man, but realizes that the original passion she felt for Noah has not dimmed with the passage of time. Still, the obstacles that once ended their previous relationship remain, and the gulf between their worlds is too vast to ignore. With her impending marriage only weeks away, Allie is forced to confront her hopes and dreams for the future, a future that only she can shape. Like a puzzle within a puzzle, the story of Noah and Allie is just beginning. As it unfolds, their tale miraculously becomes something different, with much higher stakes. The result is a deeply moving portrait of love itself, the tender moments, and fundamental changes that affect us all. Shining with a beauty that is rarely found in current literature, The Notebook establishes Nicholas Sparks as a classic storyteller with a unique insight into the only emotion that really matters.

5 ways to ask her out and not taking no for an answer! :P



Yeah you hope it was this easy! :P but as we all know its not! and we are sure most of you haven't even tried. So this is your guide on how to ask a girl out and not take no for an answer.


What You Need To Know   
                                                                                                                   
A real man would never rely on guilt to get a girl out on a date.
 
Don't give her the option to let you down gently.
                                                                                    
Tailor how you ask her out and what you will do on your date to how well you know her.
                
Be honest and don't feel shy to ask her out.                  


Be truthful, trustworthy, courteous, respectful and a Perfect Gentleman.



For our purposes, and to better help you ask out the woman you've been eyeing, we’ll say that you already know this girl (perhaps she goes to your gym, she’s a friend of a friend or she works in your building). Whatever the case, you’re trying to move from having casual conversation to dating her and forming a potential relationship. What you need to do is quite simple and unfortunately the dating gurus often overlook it: Just ask her out! Here are a few ways to get to that point. We’ve even thrown in some phrases that will help you get the results that you're after.

“Can I buy you dinner next week?”

 

When you ask her out like this, you’re not giving her the option to let you down gently (and somewhat vaguely) by saying she already has plans. If she says, “Yes, that might be nice,” you can immediately follow it up with something like, “OK, which day works best for you?” If she still finds a way to avoid making concrete plans, you should move on to another girl at this point because she clearly isn’t interested. Incidentally, offering to buy her dinner lets her know that this is a date, not merely a friendly get-together.

  “Do you want to go to the game with me?”

 

If you learn that the girl you’re eyeing is even remotely interested in sports, this is an excellent angle to try. Not only is it nice and light for everyone involved, but it also doesn’t require continual interaction. When she offers you money for the tickets, insist that because you invited her, this outing is on you. If she refuses to accept that and starts throwing money at you (and it’s obvious that she’s not attempting to simply be polite), she’s making it pretty clear that the two of you are not on a date, in which case you might as well sit back and enjoy the game. Hey, things could be worse.

  “Hey, wanna grab a coffee?”

 

You should tailor how you ask her out and what you do on your date to how well you know her. As such, it might be better to keep the first date brief and low-key. For example, if the two of you are mere acquaintances and you’ve only exchanged basic pleasantries with her, there is a chance that you’re completely incompatible and a two- or three-hour date might be too much for either of you to handle. She’s also more likely to accept something casual, like coffee or lunch, if she doesn’t know anything about you.


"I'd love to see this movie with you."

 

Every man knows that it makes no difference who watches a movie with him, but girls don’t always think like that. So, when you phrase the invitation like this you’re playing to her female sensibilities and paying her a sly tribute, which is something that goes a long way. Couching your invitation in a compliment is a great way to ask a girl out because it immediately makes her feel sexy and desirable, which will encourage her to answer in the affirmative. Some guys think you need to be cocky and arrogant to attract women, but very few can actually make this work for them. Stick to old-school flattery to bring her around, because in our experience even really hot girls don’t get tired of hearing compliments.


  “I’m taking you out this weekend. It’ll be a riot.”

 

Don’t ask her, tell her. It’s no secret that women like assertive men, so if you can find the right tone and setting -- be careful not to come across as a bossy jerk -- she’ll appreciate the confidence and the candor. Adding the “It’ll be a riot” bit at the end softens it just enough to let her know that the decision is still hers to make, but she’ll be missing out on something genuinely appealing if she turns you down.


It’s not a tongue twister and remember it could go either way! 







 So, here you have five different ways to get to the point and ask her out yes they are simple, but effective. Don’t get bogged down with elaborate strategies and start over-thinking the pursuit. Remember, you’re trying to score points with single women, not the “seduction community.

Monday, 30 January 2012

Top ten romantic movies of all time!! Trust me you'll need this one! ;-)



ROMANTIC MOVIES are my absolute favorites, I just love a good romance – don’t you? To feel the emotional tug, wait breathlessly to see if love will conquer all, and use up a box of tissues in the process – what a bliss! So, if you are too looking for a good romantic movie, you will surely find quite a few on our ultimate list of 10 Most Romantic Movies ever! With the plot descriptions, mood modes, casts, ratings and reviews, you will be able to pick the most romantic movies to watch that are just right for you. Forget those crappy movie nights, when you would end up with something you wish you haven’t even downloaded – with this magic list of 10 Most Romantic Movies, your every movie night will be a beautiful trip into the world of mankind’s best romance. So, what are we waiting for? Let’s see which romantic movies you’d like to watch today!


1. The Notebook (2004)


The Notebook is an all time favorite of everyone who loves romantic movies. This outstanding and touching love story will surely become your favorite too…
Romantic Plot: Seemingly star-crossed lovers Allie and Noah can’t seem to get it together. They’re deeply in love but run into trouble at every turn, thanks to meddling families and other relationships. However, the story of their love, written in the eponymous notebook, proves that it really does conquer all — even age.
Main Cast: Rachel McAdams, Ryan Gosling, Gena Rowlands, and James Garner.
Romantic Mood: Sad.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating: 5.7/10.
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 2. Dirty Dancing (1987).


This movie is magic, something more than the ordinary romantic movie. Everyone who has seen Jennifer Grey and Patrick Swayze dance into our hearts in this movie will remember it forever…
Romantic Plot: A good girl from a well-to-do family falls in love with an older bad boy from the wrong side of the tracks. Baby (Grey) and Johnny (Swayze) reinvent the genre during one summer vacation at a posh, family friendly camp, although viewers are left wondering if they reached their happily-ever-after following their iconic dance. They do succeed in proving that love is more important than money, prestige, or reputations.
Main Cast: Jennifer Grey, Patrick Swayze, Jerry Orbach, and Kelly Bishop.
Romantic Mood: Uplifting.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating: 5.9/10.
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3. Titanic (1997)


There’s something magic, fascinating and unforgettable about this love story. No wonder it’s one of the most romantic movies of all time. Leonardo diCaprio is the poor Jack, and Kate Winslet is the rich but unhappy Rose.
Romantic Plot:Rich Rose and poor Jack manage to meet on the ill-fated ship, where Rose is contemplating a jump off the ship, partly due to her engagement to the incorrigible Cal. In spite of coming from two entirely different worlds, the two strike an immediate, passionate connection that survives even the worst possible tragedy.
Main Cast:
Leonardo DiCaprio, Kate Winslet, Billy Zane, and Kathy Bates.
Mood:
Tragic.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating:
7.4/10.
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4. Notting Hill (1999) 


An easy-going romantic comedy starring Hugh Grant and Julia Roberts. She is a famous star and he’s just an ordinary man, but the feelings between them are the same anyway.
Plot: Will (Grant) is a humble bookstore owner, while Anna (Roberts) is a Hollywood star with all the glitz and glamor the occupation implies. Their chance meeting sparks an instant attraction, but a secret relationship and the fame attached to Anna’s bright star conspire to keep the two of them apart through a succession of ludicrous and heartbreaking situations.
Main Cast:
Julia Roberts, Hugh Grant, Rhys Ifans, and Alec Baldwin.
Mood:
Funny.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating:
7.1/10.
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5. Gone with the wind (1939) 


This is by far the most classic romantic movie of all time. Clark Gable and Vivien Leigh will always be remembered for their amazing characters in this movie.
Plot: On the cusp of the Civil War, Scarlett O’Hara (Leigh) conspires to get Ashley Wilkes (Leslie Howard) to marry her instead of his cousin Melanie (Olivia de Havilland), leading to an infuriating meeting with Rhett Butler (Gable), a persona non grata with an atrocious reputation. Throughout the war and its aftermath, through hasty marriages, deaths, tragedies, and triumphs, he and Scarlett are drawn together again and again, although her love for Ashley abides. Only too late does she realize rapscallion Rhett had her heart all along.
Main Cast:
Vivien Leigh, Clark Gable, Leslie Howard, and Olivia de Havilland.
Mood:
Awe-inspiring and tragic.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating:
8.7/10.
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6. Grease (1978)


One of the most famous romantic movies ever without a doubt. This is a romantic film with plenty of music, plenty of dance and lots of feelings.
Plot: Danny (John Travolta) and Sandy’s (Olivia Newton-John) love story begins with the classic premise of good girl meets bad boy, but from there it parts ways with any kind of archetype. Newly transplanted from Oz, goody two shoes Sandy comes to Rydell High, only to discover that her sweet summer love is actually the bad boy leader of the T-Birds. Jibes from the other Birds and the Pink Ladies keep the two apart until Sandy decides to take a walk on the wild side — perfectly in key!
Main Cast:
Olivia Newton-John, John Travolta, Jeff Conway, and Stockard Channing.
Mood:
Upbeat and groovy.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating:
6.7/10.
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7. Pretty Woman (1990)


Pretty Woman is an iconic twist on the Cinderella story. I am sure you all have seen Pretty Woman at lease once in your life. But even so, you might want to see it again!
Plot: Edward (Richard Gere) and Vivian (Julia Roberts) come from two entirely different places: he’s a high echelon business man, she’s a prostitute with a heart of gold working hard for every dollar. While getting directions through Hollywood, Edward — notoriously bad with relationships — makes the decision to purchase Vivian’s services for an entire week, although their intimate moments have far less to do with money than they do with passion. However, when Edward’s friend and partner discovers Vivian’s occupation, his behavior and reaction cause a rift between the two — but ultimately, love conquers over money.
Main Cast:
Julia Roberts, Richard Gere, Jason Alexander, and Laura San Giacomo.
Mood:
Hopeful and sweet.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating:
5/7/10.
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8. Ghost (1990)


This is a story about love that transcends even death. A classic for many reasons including the iconic pottery scene, this touching tale is the perfect date movie and a must see for any romantic movie lover!
Romantic Plot: Sam (Patrick Swayze) and Molly (Demi Moore) are happy and very much in love. Walking back to their new apartment after a night out at the theatre, they encounter a thief in a dark alley, and Sam is murdered. He finds himself trapped as a ghost and realises that his death was no accident. He must warn Molly about the danger that she is in. But as a ghost he can not be seen or heard by the living, and so he tries to communicate with Molly through Oda Mae Brown (Whoopi Goldberg), a psychic who didn’t even realise that her powers were real until then.
Main Cast: Patrick Swayze, Demi Moore, Whoopi Goldberg and Tony Goldwyn.
Romantic Mood: Sweet and touching
Rotten Tomatoes Rating: 6.8/10
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9. Legends of the fall (1995)

Legends of the Fall is one of the saddest, most touching but wonderful war-time movies ever. It offers love, war, daily life and anger within a family.
Plot: The love of a woman, Susannah (Julia Ormond), and their father, William (Anthony Hopkins), creates tension, strife, and love within the lives of the three Ludlow brothers — Alfred (Aidan Quinn), Tristan (Brad Pitt), and Samuel (Henry Thomas). Samuel dies in WWI, in Tristan’s arms. This fact and an affair with Samuel’s former fiance, Susannah, leaves Tristan guilty and heartbroken, given to fits of temper and bad decisions. Alfred ultimately marries Susannah, creating tension with his father, who suffers a stroke and an ongoing depression that does not end until Tristan returns from self-imposed exile. While the family eventually knits itself together, it still suffers from tragedies and death.
Main Cast:
Brad Pitt, Aidan Quinn, Anthony Hopkins, Julia Ormond, and Henry Thomas.
Mood:
Tragic but inspiring.
Rotten Tomatoes Rating:
5.7/10.
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10. How to lose a guy in 10 days (2003)



Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey are both excellent in this entertaining, amusing and funny romantic comedy.
Romantic Plot: Andie (Hudson) is a journalist who comes up with an idea for an article about how she can completely turn off a guy in just 10 days. Benjamin (McConaughey) is an ad executive who brags that it will only take him 10 days to make a woman fall head over heels in love with them. Naturally, they meet one another, and the mishaps involved in their tug of war relationship ultimately come out right.
Main Cast: Kate Hudson, Matthew McConaughey, Adam Goldberg, and Kathryn Hahn.
Romantic Mood: Hilarious!
Rotten Tomatoes Rating: 5/10.
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So this is it guys! Next time you decide to watch a movie together you'll know which one to watch!!
Keep the lights dim, popcorn ready, the room temperature cold and just one blanket! :P 
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Sunday, 29 January 2012

Saying the “L” word for the first time



So you think you love her, you want to take you relationship forward, you take her out on a date and say those three magical words, “I Love You”, and she responds, “Oh! You’re so sweet. Thank you”. Your relationship, instead of moving forward, turns into something awkward. This is why it is really important to know the right time to say “I love you”.  If you get the “I love you” back, there is such joy and happiness that it can’t be described.

If you ask girls they think the guys should be the first to say it. If you ask the guys they think that girls should say it first. But we don’t think that there is any rule like that. If you truly feel that you love the other person and you feel that he or she feels the same, you can say it. 

You need to know if the other person is on the same page as you.  There is no need to rush into things when going slow is already going good for you.  If you love the person then you will automatically care about them. Love can be seen through small loving and caring gestures that the person does. You are showing your love by these, but is he or she showing a lot of care for you too? Are you sharing enough about your life with each other easily? If yes, then it is possible that the feelings of love are developing on the other side too.  
The most important thing is to trust yourself and try to use your intuition. The signs of love will be there. If you can see them, then you can say it. You will get closer in your relationship and it will take a beautiful turn.  

Thursday, 26 January 2012

How to ask a friend out on a date


So if you have a friend that you are attracted to but don’t know how to go about it, we can help you. In this case it is very important to remember that a comfort level between you two is already there, because you are friends. 

If you hang out with a group of people, try to find some time alone with each other to hang out. Maybe after everyone leaves, you can make him/her stay back for a while for “some work you had”. Maybe take a walk to get it done. This way you will get time to chat alone. You can be a little flirtatious. 

Next time you get a call from them to hang out and if it is a group thing again, then don’t be available and try to plan something out for later, where it will be just the two of you. 

When you two are hanging out, give mixed signals about your feelings, like you can give a compliment but in a joking sarcastic way. Girls can try to create a mystery about them and guys can sort of tease and joke with the girls. 

When you think the time is right, and you seem to be getting closer to each other, be bold and ask him/her to go on a date. Do not fear rejection. Your friendship can grow into something more and you will never know if you do not try. You can ask him/her in person or on the phone, whatever you are more comfortable with!
Always have confidence in yourself. If it works out then its good, if it doesn’t then too you’ll be fine! It will not help you if you worry, get nervous or get desperate. Remember you are friends and just have fun with this! You can only handle it well if you have confidence in yourself.

Good Luck!