So if you have a friend that you are attracted to but don’t
know how to go about it, we can help you. In this case it is very important to
remember that a comfort level between you two is already there, because you are
friends.
If you hang out with a group of people, try to find some time
alone with each other to hang out. Maybe after everyone leaves, you can make
him/her stay back for a while for “some work you had”. Maybe take a walk to get
it done. This way you will get time to chat alone. You can be a little
flirtatious.
Next time you get a call from them to hang out and if it is
a group thing again, then don’t be available and try to plan something out for
later, where it will be just the two of you.
When you two are hanging out, give mixed signals about your
feelings, like you can give a compliment but in a joking sarcastic way. Girls can
try to create a mystery about them and guys can sort of tease and joke with the
girls.
When you think the time is right, and you seem to be getting
closer to each other, be bold and ask him/her to go on a date. Do not fear rejection.
Your friendship can grow into something more and you will never know if you do
not try. You can ask him/her in person or on the phone, whatever you are more
comfortable with!
Always have confidence in yourself. If it works out then its
good, if it doesn’t then too you’ll be fine! It will not help you if you worry,
get nervous or get desperate. Remember you are friends and just have fun with
this! You can only handle it well if you have confidence in yourself.
Good Luck!
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