Sunday, 29 January 2012

Saying the “L” word for the first time



So you think you love her, you want to take you relationship forward, you take her out on a date and say those three magical words, “I Love You”, and she responds, “Oh! You’re so sweet. Thank you”. Your relationship, instead of moving forward, turns into something awkward. This is why it is really important to know the right time to say “I love you”.  If you get the “I love you” back, there is such joy and happiness that it can’t be described.

If you ask girls they think the guys should be the first to say it. If you ask the guys they think that girls should say it first. But we don’t think that there is any rule like that. If you truly feel that you love the other person and you feel that he or she feels the same, you can say it. 

You need to know if the other person is on the same page as you.  There is no need to rush into things when going slow is already going good for you.  If you love the person then you will automatically care about them. Love can be seen through small loving and caring gestures that the person does. You are showing your love by these, but is he or she showing a lot of care for you too? Are you sharing enough about your life with each other easily? If yes, then it is possible that the feelings of love are developing on the other side too.  
The most important thing is to trust yourself and try to use your intuition. The signs of love will be there. If you can see them, then you can say it. You will get closer in your relationship and it will take a beautiful turn.  

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