Love and All That Craziness: 5 ways to ask her out and not taking no for an answer! :P

Yeah you hope it was this easy! :P but as we all know its not! and we are sure most of you haven't even tried. So this is your guide on how to ask a girl out and not take no for an answer.

What You Need To Know

A real man would never rely on guilt to get a girl out on a date.

Don't give her the option to let you down gently.

Tailor how you ask her out and what you will do on your date to how well you know her.

Be honest and don't feel shy to ask her out.

Be truthful, trustworthy, courteous, respectful and a Perfect Gentleman.

For our purposes, and to better help you ask out the woman you've been eyeing, we’ll say that you already know this girl (perhaps she goes to your gym, she’s a friend of a friend or she works in your building). Whatever the case, you’re trying to move from having casual conversation to dating her and forming a potential relationship. What you need to do is quite simple and unfortunately the dating gurus often overlook it: Just ask her out! Here are a few ways to get to that point. We’ve even thrown in some phrases that will help you get the results that you're after.

“Can I buy you dinner next week?”

When you ask her out like this, you’re not giving her the option to let you down gently (and somewhat vaguely) by saying she already has plans. If she says, “Yes, that might be nice,” you can immediately follow it up with something like, “OK, which day works best for you?” If she still finds a way to avoid making concrete plans, you should move on to another girl at this point because she clearly isn’t interested. Incidentally, offering to buy her dinner lets her know that this is a date, not merely a friendly get-together.

“Do you want to go to the game with me?”

If you learn that the girl you’re eyeing is even remotely interested in sports, this is an excellent angle to try. Not only is it nice and light for everyone involved, but it also doesn’t require continual interaction. When she offers you money for the tickets, insist that because you invited her, this outing is on you. If she refuses to accept that and starts throwing money at you (and it’s obvious that she’s not attempting to simply be polite), she’s making it pretty clear that the two of you are not on a date, in which case you might as well sit back and enjoy the game. Hey, things could be worse.

“Hey, wanna grab a coffee?”

You should tailor how you ask her out and what you do on your date to how well you know her. As such, it might be better to keep the first date brief and low-key. For example, if the two of you are mere acquaintances and you’ve only exchanged basic pleasantries with her, there is a chance that you’re completely incompatible and a two- or three-hour date might be too much for either of you to handle. She’s also more likely to accept something casual, like coffee or lunch, if she doesn’t know anything about you.

"I'd love to see this movie with you."

Every man knows that it makes no difference who watches a movie with him, but girls don’t always think like that. So, when you phrase the invitation like this you’re playing to her female sensibilities and paying her a sly tribute, which is something that goes a long way. Couching your invitation in a compliment is a great way to ask a girl out because it immediately makes her feel sexy and desirable, which will encourage her to answer in the affirmative. Some guys think you need to be cocky and arrogant to attract women, but very few can actually make this work for them. Stick to old-school flattery to bring her around, because in our experience even really hot girls don’t get tired of hearing compliments.

“I’m taking you out this weekend. It’ll be a riot.”

Don’t ask her, tell her. It’s no secret that women like assertive men, so if you can find the right tone and setting -- be careful not to come across as a bossy jerk -- she’ll appreciate the confidence and the candor. Adding the “It’ll be a riot” bit at the end softens it just enough to let her know that the decision is still hers to make, but she’ll be missing out on something genuinely appealing if she turns you down.